That’s true. They don’t care what I look like lol
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Idk, I’m 43 and I feel like no men want to talk to me unless they can get money or something from me. They all seem to be expecting to bag an Instagram model regardless of their own status and looks. The dating world has gotten so shallow. I’m a chunky woman lol, not a fitness YouTuber.
***this was supposed to be under another post but no clue how it got placed where it is lol
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Yeah it’s really bad out there, I think it’s worse for guys
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Sorry you’ve had that experience. Do you think we automatically assume someone isn’t going to be attracted to us because of prior experiences?
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If it’s constantly no, or hell no, yeah
Yeah, I feel ya. What do we do now? Garden?
We live i guess and hope it’s worth it
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You look like you’d be a very nice guy. I’d talk to you if you passed me in the halls at work!
Trying to get attention as an older, big girl tho… ugh! LoL
It’s always worth it.
I am a nice guy and that’s usually the problem
Dating as an ugly woman is strange. I never know if it’s just a warm body or cold cash they are fishing for luckily I got married young sadly I was widowed 6 years ago so now I’m single and old and big and not to exciting I crochet and cross stitch and enjoy podcast. Some ppl think I should happily give up my space and body because who else wants it lol I’m trying to enjoy life . But I am learning alone and it’s hard! Side note I just learned that holding ya pee untill the last minute is a depressive act like Mimi self flagiation lol