If y’all are ugly as you claim to be, one way to get around that, and look more attractive is to become some kind of leader. I don’t necessarily mean being the big boss, or CEO, or anything like that. You can just be a leader of a small project, or a small organization.
I often find that plain or ugly people do well for themselves in leadership roles. Look at politicians. Most aren’t that attractive, but their power makes them attractive.
What do you think makes a good leader? How can you develop these qualities?