Fat people are not attractive. Yes there is a such thing as ugly. Certain features are praised like cheek bones,lips, eyes, long hair, curves. Others like nappy hair, short hair, fat rolls are not. It’s life. Having a person that it generally regarded as attractive tell me otherwise is not comforting. They don’t know. Everyone womsn is not beautiful. Men will definitely let you know. ugly girl treatment is real… we are treated like lepers. like if you turn on the lights, you’ll go blind. If you take me out my ugly will rub off on you. Ot it could just be embarrassment. Attractive women complain and turn men away because it’s too many. I havent in dated in 8 years. I’ve had sex a couple times, but it’s so rare, I have no clue what I’m doing and believe I suck at it. Never get a second one of thise either. I can say I’m not ugly all day but at some point I have to accept the reality of my situation. In the same respect ugly people get lonely too, hence why I’m here. I’m fun to be around. Just wear sun glasses I suppose.
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It is more complicated than that .
Pretty people can scare people away too .
Hollywood lies to everybody about what a healthy relationship looks like . It set the bar way too high . Be honest with what you are willing to tolerate . Be honest about what you want .
Shoving your tongue into the mouth of the first guy who crosses your path is a quick path to disappointment .
You just need to volunteer somewhere and start as friends before that horrifying background check data gets dumped into your lap .
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