There’s no topic to introduce ourselves it seems. So feel free to do it here. Tell us your name, age and interests, why you are on the website & other stuff 
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How do pple find real unconditional love??
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Hi there. I’m new here. Just joined today. Maybe I’m overreaching here but I wouldn’t consider myself ugly but I am, on a scale of 1- 10, at or slightly below average. To make matters worse, I make a working class income and I’m a person of color (black/white). Let’s be honest, we live in a classist society and the two aforementioned qualities are not scoring me any points. In my experience, I’d have to be exceptionally beautiful just to get the attention of someone because of my race alone, not to mention my income bracket. And no, I do not have any hang-ups about my race. I think it’s one of my best attributes. It’s just not very marketable.
If someone I liked could get past my surface flaws, I’d be super fun to date and partner up with. I’m super outgoing, friendly, high energy, and I love being there emotionally for my man during the worst of circumstances. I learned that during my pervious marriage. I absolutely loved being a wife! Too bad it was the wrong guy.
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You can start by being a more loving person yourself first. This is something I had to learn the hard way.
You’re not an ugly person and women of color are the most beautiful women in the world, society has just dictated what equates beauty. For men like me, surface flaws aren’t important. There is nothing more unattractive than a woman (or a man) that is hideous in regards to their personality or psychological traits. I’ve unfortunately had back to back relationships with women that had severe narcissistic personality disorders.
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Sorry to hear that. I just got divorced from a narcissist so I know how exhausting that can be.
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First off. Your cute. Second off. Women’s value isn’t their wallet or what they contribute to society on a whole. That’s men. It’s beauty and turning a house into a home. Feminism was ok the first wave 
, but this 3rd 4th wave done destroyed
femininity and is teaching girls to judge themselves by male standards. there’s nothing wrong with getting a degree or starting a business, but men typically don’t care about your bank account. They want a woman that will raise their children to be great people and be loyal. If a man is chasing you for your money then he isn’t the right guy. Men crave to be provider’s. You should look into just pearly things on YouTube. She will explain it better than me.
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Thank you, Puffdamagi, for your kind words. I will be sure to check out Just Pearly Things. I currently get a lot of inspiration from YouTube so I’m sure this will be helpful.
I don’t know what to say my names Shauna 42 Florida
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Hey there, I hope your all well.
My names Talon. Is anyone still active on this place?
Tried the dating website it seems ultra dead.
I doubt that I would be classed as ugly, but I do have a very serious thing for women who are not conventionally attractive, I don’t know why, it’s just the way I’m hard wired, not that I’m complaining ;P.
The problem I find is meeting women like this is surprisingly hard.
a lot of them are shy don’t go out much if at all and very rarely socialise.
If there’s any ladies still here who want to chat, get to know me better. Please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Talon_pullin@mail.com
English women would be better, but Im just as happy to have penpals abroad as well. 
I would eventually be looking for something more serious, but for now I’m happy to just see where things go.
I hope you all have a wonderful day, take heart and strength in all you do and don’t let the bastards grind you down! XD
Hey, my name is Sarah and I live in Germany. I’m usually quiet, love chill activities, art, watching documentaries, keep pet rabbits and snails, interested in food and nutrition, culture, health, trying to get fitter and more confident.
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Hey Sarah, welcome. This place seems completely dead. Your the first active profile I’ve seen!
I workout quite regularly and know my way around fitness, so if you want I’m happy to help develop a workout routine for you.
Shoot me an email if your interested.
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Maybe it starts by unconditionally loving ourselves.
That’s what I’m doing. I’m loving myself more. I’m in a good place now.
My name is Chris P. I live in Oregon Benton County.
Hi Jenn. You are beautiful. At least I think you are. I don’t think most men care about your race or your income. It’s about shared chemistry and attraction. Im sure you are a very nice and interesting person to know. Lucky is they guy in Minnesota who meets you
Hi. I’m on this site because I’m older, 56, and tried various apps to find someone near my age for activities and dating, but I don’t really feel like I’m in the league with any of the women I see. I’m short, 5’6", and it seems all women want someone who is tall. I’m not especially in good shape or attractive, and I’m very shy and am really terrible at talking to women. I just feel at this point that I will never meet someone. I’ve given up even trying to talk to anyone in public anymore for fear of rejection.
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Hi Ken, I am new here too, I do not necessarily consider myself ugly but I joined because I am so sick and tired of the regular dating apps where most of the guys my age (I am 53) would just scroll thru and look for younger, sexier women and those that expose a little cleavage or anything provocative.
I am basically tired of all the superficiality out there. Seems like no one on those regular sites want an honest, down to earth, regular gal whom might not be in her 20s or have a hot bod.
So i thought a non regular site might have folks that are more authentic and real. I am just looking for a real friend for a start. Nothing fancy.
What I want to say is, youre not alone. In a world filled with phony people living in 3rd dimension, folks like us who want real connection are drowning in the noise. But we just need to keep looking for our tribe.
Glad to chat with you.
Are there much activity in the site at all tho???
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Hello dear, from India/Korea and I like mature women (and their body too) too as they are good at handling men in the right way. Contact if interested contact in telgrm shaniyaagarwal
Hello.New guy here. Just joined last night.My name is Scott,51,single for too long.Women in my area just dont seem interested.So figured I’d join here and give it one last shot I guess.lol. Don’t know why my profile picture doesn’t show up on here.
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